As I reflected on recent messages about building bridges, I thought about our Real Groups. In Real Groups we’re building bridges and connecting lives. Bridge builders use steel, cable and who knows what else (aren’t you glad I don’t build the bridges you use on the road?). In Real Groups, we use communication/conversation as one of our tools to build bridges. When this tool is used effectively, it helps to genuinely connect the members of the group to each other.
It was stated in an earlier blog that you need to listen….you need to listen to your group members AND you also need to listen to what’s going on inside your head. Are you focused on what the person is saying or are you thinking about what you want to say next? Focus on the speaker, maintain eye contact and resist distractions. Focus! (BTW did you register for Focus 2010? )
Our great bridge building example is Jesus. He spoke the truth to His followers but He also listened to what they had to say. He engaged people, he asked them questions. He didn’t monopolize the conversation. Everywhere He went, He built bridges, connecting with others through the words He spoke and the way He spoke.
Keep the bridge in mind as you communicate with your Real Group; listen for all the voices in the group; check to see…..is there just one voice? Provide opportunities for all the voices to be heard so everyone feels REALly like they belong!
Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt so that you may know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:6
Good perspective and keeps us leading with facilitating as the goal – where everyone can feel a part…..
Tonite Pas Tex. message on God’s mercy was good, inspiring as usual. As our group discussion brought in different perspectives and ideas on mercy – when and how to show it – I received a personal redirect in needing to show mercy – and it is in being filled with compassion and understanding that I can flow in God’s mercy –
Grateful for the power of God’s truths – they are timeless and freeing!!!!
Thank You Lord for your Body the Body of Christ that is given for our mutual edification, encouragement and support – I experienced that big time this evening.